John Lanca

John Lanca

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U.S. Navy

Dear Eric and Michael,

It will be 5 yrs this January that my brother died.  I came across your display at the TAPS seminar this past year.  I am requesting a portrait of my brother for my Mother.  I see how she lives through the pain of loosing her son everyday.  My brother John served in the Navy Reserves for 20years.  He was deployed in July of 2005 and returned in April of 2006.  He returned a different person.  He struggled for 8 long months dealing with PTSD, which ultimately caused him to take his own life.  Despite trying to get help through the VA, which was useless, we lost him.  My brother was a kind and gentle person.  He never could say anything negative about anyone.  He was always there when you needed him.  I never heard him raise his voice.  He had the most beautiful brown eyes, that looked at you in the most gentle way. My brother was always a hard worker, and always thought of others before he thought of himself. He loved to joke around. He was good about leaving little notes around for you to find. He still leaves me things when I least expect it.  I know that he is safe now in a wonderful place.

Thank you both for you dedication and time honoring our fallen heroes. I don’t think the majority of the American citizens realize the sacrifice of our service men and women and their families.

John’s portrait is also on Poster 13


One Response to “John Lanca”
  1. I knew John well. I was in Charley company also. He was a real nice guy. I always enjoyed talking with him. We were both anxious to get out of there and get back home.
    When I got home I did not feel to good either.
    The V.A. helped, but it was tough to shake off
    the aftermath of our deployment. It took a long time. I wish he had called me to talk.
    We would have shared our thoughts about Iraqi
    Freedom. I heard about his passing through sailors at my Reserve Center. I’m sorry for
    What happened. You can email me if you want or call me if you want.
    I gotta go now. All my best.
    Karl Botkin.

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